OK, I'm biased because I'm fortunate enough to count Marian Pierre-Louis and Andrew Carroll among my friends, but I highly recommend giving this interview a listen -- and while you're at it, be sure to snag yourself a copy of Here Is Where. You'll love this book!
http://www.blogtalkradio.com/fieldstonecommon/2013/07/11/here-is-where-with-andrew-carroll